Friday, January 2, 2015
You're acting in a very selfish manner, and it's not beneficial to anyone. Listening to you talk is like listening to a young child who believes the whole world revolves around them and what they want. At this point, you should be well aware that it's NOT all about you.
Sure, you tell me all the time that it's all about your child, but actions speak louder than words. Heck, even your own words at times prove you a liar. You aren't as interested in what is right for him as you are in hurting his father, or making yourself look good.
Yes, I know it hurts when he says he would like to go to his father's early, but sometimes you just have to suck it up and let him do it. When he's older, he'll remember that you were the flexible one.....or he'll remember that you never let him have extra time with his father, and resent you for it. Having been in his shoes, I would think that you would already know these things.
A child is not a possession, and should never be treated as one. He has feelings, he has opinions, and those should be respected as much as possible.